Given that you're a man, you are most likely into classic vanilla sex. And even it's called vanilla sex, it typically implies that you are the dominant person in that relationship. You are the one who gets on top of the girl, and you are the giver of pleasure, you do it just like a dom is supposed to do it. However, the girl need not remain down and stay still and quiet as you pound her pussy into oblivion. Obviously, she can interact with you and give you soft kisses as rewards for all the good work your hips are doing. If you don't got a girl then all of the things I said beforehand are truly pointless. Though, you can watch and learn from more fortunate guys who are lucky enough to top their girls. So feel free to watch these videos till you get you a girl.